3. Compliments are not currency.
One reason why men are reluctant to let go of their “right” to fixate, vocally, on women’s looks to the exclusion of all else, is because historically compliments have been profitable for men. It’s an instant “in.” Because the expectation that’s modeled for women and drilled into us from childhood is that if someone is nice to you, you owe him something: He buys you dinner, you owe him sex. He compliments you, you owe him a smile. Overhauling that system drains men’s social bank accounts. But it doesn’t have to be that way! You can interact with us on a human-to-human level instead of a collector-to-curio level and I promise we will love you for it. Telling people they look nice is perfectly fine—it just can’t be the primary form of currency.
http://jezebel.com/you-cant-tell-the-attorney-general-she-has-an-epic-but-471311007
Mad like Oolong premetal

Mad like Oolong premetal

SpazzFest 2013- The Kickass

SpazzFest 2013- The Kickass

Aether Realm: Ravensong

You really need to check this band out, buy their stuff, go to their shows.
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Barbell Complexes- for all levels. Can’t wait to try this!

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lemon ricotta crepes with blood oranges.

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The more powerful and original a mind, the more it will incline towards the religion of solitude.
Aldous Huxley  (via learn-how-to-be-alone)

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i.Valdeva vocalist Curt Klump (pictured in this creepy-ass promo) is in Dark Feed which comes to DVD in March.  Check it out on Netflix Champs.

Yes! Thank you, Middlestreet! 

middlestreet:

i.Valdeva vocalist Curt Klump (pictured in this creepy-ass promo) is in Dark Feed which comes to DVD in March.  Check it out on Netflix Champs.

Yes! Thank you, Middlestreet! 

I need to be alone. I need to ponder my shame and my despair in seclusion; I need the sunshine and the paving stones of the streets without companions, without conversation, face to face with myself, with only the music of my heart for company
Henry Miller, Tropic of Cancer (via technicolourhealth)

Sometimes, yes.

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athomewithlana:

Oxford University students on why we need feminism

PERF! A WOMAN’S PLACE IS IN REVOLUTION!

I love these! A woman’s place IS in the revolution.

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Hailing from the hole-in-the-wall record shop of your youth & that rotten feminist group on campus........................... Then i had to get a job.

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